Why does it hurt to love someone and when you do it hurts...hard to trust but the heart can't let go..

Don't love or give trust too much to that one person. I learned it the hard way. He took it for granted and cheated on me. I Didn't find out till a year or so later.

That is sad :(

It was sad when i first found out but now I happy where i am. I don't have to put up with him and even though he re-marry i know he still misses me. I'm sure he will always because no one can love him the way I have.

sure trust some 1 is hard but no choice u have 2 trust each other that's a happy marry couple or happy frinedship .

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easy say then done..

True!...but before we going further...knowing someone for a long time before marrying them is better of trusting them then the one that only known each other for a short period of time. We love them, trust them according to the way they love us back and the best method is marrying someone who never had any relationship with others before. Few families have good back ground and their daughter/son will tends to be faithful in life according to their personality and family traditions. Find these families and you will have true love and trust but if you are one of the unlucky one than peace be with you cause in this world, only few peoples are meant to be good husband and wife.....good luck! Yog nws yog yus thawj tug hlub, yus yog nws thawj tug hlub ces yeej sib ntseeg siab vim yus ob leeg tsis tau nkim cov lus zoo zoo hais pub rau lwm tus ua rau yus nco lawv. Tsuas yog thawj tug thiaj zoo xwb tiamsis yuav tsum yog ob leeg tsis tau muaj dua li nawb otherwise it doesn't work....hehehehehe

yup, takes time.

I can never love someone I can't trust. To love someone you have to make alot sacrafices so when it's not working out then there's no point of moving forward. Rather be hurt now then later. Save your time and energy for something bigger and better in your future.

If you can't trust them then don't love them! No point!!!

you guys are looking at everything in in a flat perspective. you see, love and trust are risk factors in life. if you don't love and trust then you are not being selfish and unfair to yourself and everyone else. and dont forget, LOVE is not all about happiness. TRUST is your level of insecurity for eachother. and remember, LOVE and TRUST cannot be defined nor judged.

you must LOVE and TRUST to receive LOVE and TRUST or KNOWLEDGE. hehe. you see, LOVE and TRUST are learning tools to lead successful lives.

and there is no such thing as you have to find certain types of families to find true LOVE and TRUST. those two things deal with internal personalites, morals, and values of a person. sometimes an apple can fall very far from the tree. sometimes it doesn't...ruling out the family theory.

Faith...full....love......just for you and me...

I think people worry too much about how other people will treat them in return. You can only control yourself. If you want to love someone, just love them and be faithful until they proof you wrong. Don't worry too much, take a step at a time and you will be just fine!:)

i think that they are excuses. i dont think that its because they think too much but more like expecting too much. you should take as it comes and let it by as it goes. don't ever expect soo much from one person because no one is perfect. let love and trust come as they are and let it play its role as it is. if it's meant to be it will be. if you hold back your love and trust then you will be manipulating the situation therefore changing the outcome.

Only true love can accomplish this cycle of life itself. No ones is perfect...true...and by knowingly that love is not fair, we learn that only true love can conquer every aspect of life but once you put your heart to the test of love, it has to be pure and honesty without having multiple boyfriends/girlfriends..than you will not be hit hard when the time comes. Faithful is trusting so if you are not faithful in the beginning in which we all don't at some point in our teenage life....that's why we love them according to the way they love us back cause everyone has their own little secrets.

DON'T MAKE IT TOO HARD lol....KISS...

if hurt alot then i guess you should let go!!!

Love=Trust=Call Police=Prison